I’m gonna get real with you here. If you are scared to do what you know you have to do, it’s because you don’t have something that’s important to you enough that drives you.
Yeah yeah, I know…. You might be sitting there reading this and saying “but Tanya I have a why that makes me cry”
I’m gonna say “bulls%*^# that why isn’t strong enough because if it were, you’d be getting out there and doing what it takes without allowing a silly little fear hold you back”
Sorry, I warned you in the beginning that this might get raw.
The people that I’ve seen climb the ranks fast were people who had a vision that was WAY bigger than any ridiculous fear. People who harness fears are too comfortable.
Have you ever seen a homeless person fear rejection? Hell no. They’re fending for their life and if they’re hungry they’ll do whatever it takes to eat.
In a sense, that homeless person is stronger than some of us. Some of us are sitting at home, warm, roof over the head and a fridge full of food and we’re scared to call our friend to share an amazing opportunity with them???
What if you had to make you’re business work because in 30 days you’d be homeless if you didn’t?
Would you treat your business a little differently?
That’s what a lot of us have to do.
We have to get uncomfortable to get comfortable.
We have to overcome the fear of rejection now because every minute you hold on to that fear will be every minute more that you’re sabotaging your success.
Grab a piece of paper and write this down:
What would happen if I don’t build this business?
Now look at your answer. Is it something that motivates you enough to get moving without excuses?
If it doesn’t piss you off enough you need to write something else down.
Get something on paper that when you look at it it boils up anger if you don’t accomplish it.
You might have to drill deep and get real with yourself but this is going to be one of the most powerful exercises you do to overcome the fear of rejection.
I challenge you to do it.
Taking this one step further if you’re up for the challenge.
If you have anyone that you feel might need this message today, please share it with them.
I hope this helps you overcome your fear of rejection. It helped me immensely.
